What is it about Love that will make people do incredible things? And what motivates one person to love another more than he or she loves self? Also what made God fall in love so much with the Humans that He had to get off His heavenly throne to come down and mount on that wretched Cross? In other words: What Is Love? And why is she so powerful that even God succumbed to her, not to mention human beings? Well my friend, Love is the quintessential ingredient that all who exist were formed with and naturally must submit to. So this is why you see all beings are capable of love, once they accept love then they will do insane things to show her to one and all. And this is what this Romantic News is about, for this is how a great husband refused to give up on a promise, until his dying breath, to take care of his wife for life. So he willingly forget himself and give all his energy to this very task of demonstrating his unwavering love... James Dazouloute
Now Let's See How This Great And Perfect Love Story Unfold:
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COURTESY OF KYLE HIRSHEdward Hale and his wife Floreen Hale comfort each other after being reunited at United Memorial Medical Center in Batavia, New York on Feb. 6. Twenty minutes after Ed arrived, Floreen died.He promised that he'd never leave her, even as he lay dying.
An 83-year-old man fulfilled his promise to his beloved wife of 60 years when they died just hours apart while holding hands in an upstate New York hospital earlier this month.
Floreen Hale, 82, and husband Ed Hale, of Batavia, died 36 hours apart in a one-of-a-kind love story that nearly ended with a broken promise when they were hospitalized miles apart on their deathbeds.
"He said, 'no, I promise to take care of her for the rest of my life and if I have to carry her forever, I will," the couple's daughter Renee Hirsh told the Daily News of his vow. "He stayed committed to that to his last dying breath."
It was 1952 that the couple first locked eyes at a county dance, a moment that they'd describe to their children as love at first sight.
COURTESY OF RENEE HIRSHThe couple's death fulfilled a 60-year promise by Edward Hale that he would never leave her alone. That vow was nearly broken when they were hospitalized miles apart the same week.Floreen was celebrating with her friends for the first time since surviving a head-on collision while driving with her then-husband of six months, who was tragically killed, as Orleans Hub first reported.
Doctors erroneously told her she'd never walk again and would need someone always there caring for her.
So when Ed Hale went to get permission from Floreen's parents to marry her, "They said 'absolutely not,'" said Hirsh. "'She's going to need someone to take care of her for the rest of her life.'"
Ed promised to be that man. Before he left their home, they accepted his proposal.
COURTESY OF KYLE HIRSHIt was 1952 that the Batavia couple first locked eyes at a county dance, a moment that they'd describe to their children as love at first sight.Their life was from then on a fairy tale romance in which they were never apart. Ed would be called a "saint" by friends and family who knew of the constant doting he did on his wife.
That all nearly changed on Jan. 31, however, when he was hospitalized for a leg injury that within days had grown gravely worse. Come the following Monday, he was moved to a Rochester hospital where doctors expected him to die.
There he asked to see his wife, not knowing that on Tuesday Floreen had been hospitalized in Batavia for congestive heart failure. After deteriorating health, she too was only given hours to live.
"(Ed) said, 'I need to see your mother, I need to talk to your mother,'" Hirsh said. "He probably realized 'I'm dying, I'm here. I need to see her.'"
COURTESY OF KYLE HIRSHThey married on May 12, 1953 at St. Joseph's Catholic Church in Albion. Hale's request to marry Floreen was first shot down by her parents. After he promised to take care of her forever, they approved."It was the worst day of my life," Hirsh acutely summed it up.
Meanwhile, nurses at her father's hospital were calling her, begging her to come to his side, saying, "He's asking for his family."
That's when hospice got involved and pulled off a truly incredible act that depended on Ed, a man lying on his deathbed, to suddenly improve. They suggested transporting him to his wife's bedside at United Methodist Medical Center.
Just before 5 a.m. Thursday they called Hirsh saying, "we're going to do everything we can to help this situation," she recalled them saying.
COURTESY OF RENEE HIRSHIn a truly remarkable story, hospice workers helped bring the dying couple together in their final hour.By 11:30 a.m., Hirsh said her father's condition was not stable, but he did rebound. It was just enough of an improvement to give the go-ahead for an ambulance to whisk him away.
At United Methodist, where two beds were put together in Floreen's room, she didn't completely understand or at least believe what was going on.
"She thought that maybe he had already died," said her daughter.
Then her loyal husband rolled into the room.
RENEE HIRSHEdward Hale, seen here with his wife Floreen Hale, was described as breathing just two breaths per minute before he died at her side. He refused to give up until he was certain that she was gone."(Floreen) just said, 'Edward, don't ever leave me again,'" Hirsh said.
Her father was in pain and barely breathing at this point, she described.
"He said, 'How long do you have?'" Hirsh said.
"He said, 'I just can't do this anymore. I love you so much,'" said Hirsh who stayed in the room.
COURTESY OF KYLE HIRSH'My dad was a saint, my dad cared for her her entire life,' the couple's daughter, Renee Hirsh told the Daily News. 'He was a gentleman to the dying breath.'"I said to my father, 'Daddy, it's OK you can go to heaven, mom's here with you,'" she said. He refused. "He said, 'No, not yet.' He kept looking over at her saying, 'No.'"
The couple held hands between their beds, and within minutes, Floreen died.
Hirsh said doctors and nurses had equally gathered to watch the couple whose bodies were said to be in complete synch on the medical charts.
In addition to this astonishing anomaly, Ed was reported as breathing only two breaths per minute. It was said to be just short of a medical record.
After a phone call from Hirsh's son who was unable to make it from Hawaii, and a visit from his last surviving sister, Ed died.
"My dad was a saint, my dad cared for her her entire life," said Hirsh. "He was a gentleman to the dying breath."
A joint funeral was held for the couple that Thursday, on the eve of Valentine's Day, at St. Mary's Catholic Church in Batavia.
After the service friends and family celebrated the couple's lives at Albion's Tillman Village Inn, where they held their wedding reception in May 1953.
"It's an amazing love story," said Hirsh of a story whose full magnitude she didn't realize until it was over. "We're kind of feeling very privileged that it's touched so many hearts."
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