How To Love With All Your Heart, And Get The Same


How To Love... With All My Heart, And Get The Same? And I command You first of all Beloved, because since you are a little god who was created in God's Image, then you have taken upon His greatest attribute by wanting to Love. And not just love, but you want to dedicate your Life to learn How To Love Perfectly, and then turn around and pour that immense love of yours upon one and all, who are willing to join you in your Life Journey. And so because you ask that question today, then I know that you are not like others, who are afraid to open up their heart, or think that they are way too grown and have more important things going on than to love, by joining their heart with another lover. But not you beloved, because you are a True Romantic At Heart, you are A Purist, you are A Giver, you are A Protector, you are An Admirer of all that is beautiful, you are A Dreamer who brings to reality the love that others can only dream of. Yes You, the Great Leader Of Love, the Pioneer Of Love, the Guardian Of Love, the Passion who vents Love's flame, and The Co-Creator with God of Perfect Love to conquer all ugliness, all abuse, all malicious activities, all wickedness, all stupidities, and of course All Evil.

How To Love?.... Well allow me today to share with you 3 great ways to always go about that Holy Activity, so that way you can first plant The Seeds Of Love within your circle of Life and Lovers, then you can watch over it and cultivate as it germinates and begin to grow, and finally be ready to lovingly corrupt others with Your Great Love, by producing fruits in them that they will enjoy to devour.


So, First Way On How To Love With All Your Heart, And Get The Same: You Must Open Your Heart Fully.
And I do not mean for you to be the kind of person who has to wait for others to show You just how they can love you first, how they can understand you first, how they can get along with you first, how they can grow with you first, how they can walk with you in an harmonious way first... And then, and only then will you begin to open up your heart just a little bit by a little bit. Where Is The Glory In That? Because Greatness into anything, always come from that great Pioneer who is willing to grab something, hold it fiercely, shape it, mold it, and make happen just what he or she wants to happen. 

And so if you wait for someone to show you love, and then you show yours, then you are just A Puppet of their affection, their attention, their care, and their passion. Besides that, you will only be matching their love with the intensity they provide to you. Again, where is the glory in that? No Beloved, before anyone can show you the slightest hint of love, You, take authority over your heart and love, and begin to plant your seeds of love into that person's head, that person's mind, that person's heart, and even into that person's daily activities... You Open Up Your Heart, and begin to push through with decisiveness into that person's consciousness. And do it in such a big way, that your love and actions will be shouting: I Am Here, And I Will Not Be Ignored. And that is how you open up your heart fully, on your own, and as a Pioneer.


How To Love? Second Way: Only Look For Love In Others.
If The Christ, and The Buddha taught us anything of lasting value, it is that you must be laser focused on Love. And Love only, in all that you do, in all that you undertake, and in all that you realize. In other words, never - ever settle for listening to the negativity's of others. Because You already know that there are many ignorant and unlearned brothers and sisters out there, who think they know everything, but have yet to realize that To Love is the beginning of all true wisdom. And so those people are quick to take up a fight, they are quick to speak their minds and set anybody straight, they are always claiming that they don't have time for this or that, and yet their whole lives have been full of dramas, mistakes, failures, fights, silliness... But in their eyes, they have a good handle on Life. But You Know Better, and so with these people, especially with them, You Beloved, push through and plant your seeds of love within every inch of them and around them. And expect that at the beginning, that type of person will do everything he or she can to get away from you, to act like he or she does not need Sentimental Love right now, and is just fine. Don't Believe The Hype, because that person is as lonely as a pet whose owner forgot about, and left them home for a month's vacation. So again, look for love in that person, and you'll see that he or she never had the best, You. 

3rd. Great Way To Love With All Your Heart, And Get The Same: Expect Others To Do You Wrong, So You Could Multiply Your Perfect Love.
And really Beloved, I never really understand this in Love Relationships, where one person does the other wrong by lying, by cheating, by let down, by anger, by abuse... And the victim just automatically retaliates, by going out and doing the same thing, or by quitting. I Say This Is Missed Opportunity To Truly Love... 


And so for the Victim, You, this is your time To Shine, and not the time to retaliate, or to quit, or to run away. Especially when that other person realizes they have done wrong and is sick of themselves. Because You now have the upper hand Beloved, you now are the greatest of light in that relationship. And so now is your time to overwhelm them, and really bring them to shame by really multiplying your efforts and out pour your great love. And if you meditate with me, you will realize that God Has been doing this ever since time began. For every time Man or Woman has lied to Him, has cheated on Him, has ignored Him, has even committed iniquities and He catches them in the act... What Does God Do? He puts them to great shame, by re-multiplying His efforts and pour even more love than before upon them. And He keeps on doing that for years. And when His Work Of Love has finally comes to fruition in that person's heart and mind, then that is the day that this person finally kneels down, and confess all their sins to God, and ask Him to please forgive. And then you see that person go on to imitate God and become one the greatest lover of Humanity, and begin to write: How Great Thou Art, That Saved A Wretch Like Me... Then Sing My Soul..

And so it must be the same for you Beloved, it must be what you do when someone you care about do you wrong. And do not forget that for each wrong done to you, God through His Universe, multiply Righteousness and Blessings to You seven fold. Because it is God's Law that if a man steals from another, he is to confess it, and then repay that man seven times? Why? Because from the day that he stole that thing, time has passed, seasons have passed, growth has passed. And so when he finally start to repay, the seven fold is what that thing has grown into, according to God. And so it is when your Heart has been broken, when your love has done you wrong. When he or she has stolen precious time to be spent with you, and has given it to others in flirting, in idle conversations at work and on the social medias. And he or she has even stolen precious love making time from You and being imaginative, by giving these away in their lustful thoughts toward others. And that is when You Are At Your Greatest, when you have been done wrong, because God, The Universe, The Holy Angels, and even Wretched Society are all on your side. 

So Be An Opportunist Like Me, and look forward to others doing you wrong, to others taking you for granted, to them stealing from your heart.. And Then, You re-double your effort and love them even more. Because then, you will drive them to deep shame and complete repentance, and then they will love you perfectly by loving you back the same way. Or they will be driven to commit Suicide, because God placed a Spirit, called Conscience inside them. And when you multiply your efforts after the wrong and now you are even showing them more love, especially that type I described above (There are many ignorant and unlearned brothers and sisters out there, who think they know everything, but have yet to realize that To Love is the beginning of all true wisdom. And so those people are quick to take up a fight, they are quick to speak their minds and set anybody straight, they are always claiming that they don't have time for this or that, and yet their whole lives have been full of dramas, mistakes, failures, fights, silliness..) Then You Beloved, will be wearing them down to Nothing, down to no more pride, down to no more ignorance and being stupid... Then You Will Get The Same Love Back, But Seven Fold... Your Soul Mate Advocate, James Dazouloute



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Top 3 Things To Look For On Dating Sites Right Now


Dating Sites... 3 Things To Look For In Those Match Making Services. Because you have been around the block Beloved, and quite a few times you might add. So by now you have come to know what to look for in anything you are getting involved in, especially when it comes to the Affairs Of Your Heart. And on top of that, you must continually be on the look out for how you spend your money, your time, your precious energy, and even how you invest your heart and your emotions into others. Because all these things make up the essence of You, your personality, your mission, your purpose and lifestyle. And so when you are looking for love on Dating Sites or using Match Making Services, more specifically when you are looking to find your Soul Mate who was designed by God perfectly Just For You, then you must have certain high standards that those services must meet. And not to forget that Your Safety is of the utmost importance, and we are not talking about just physical safety, but also the safety of your identity, your financial safety, and even the safety of your reputation. So today, I intend to share with You 3 key things to always look for before engaging with, or employing Dating Sites or Match Making Services, because in your search for Love And Relationship, You must be enlightened.


First Key Thing To Look For In Match Making Services: Are They Upscale, And Is Their Clientele As Well?.
Meaning, what kind of Clientele do they offer their services to? Because you don't want them to be so money hungry that they are willing to sign up just anyone so they could pay their rent and employees. No, you want them to make available to you the kind of professional people that you have become accustomed to. And I don't just mean people who have a good job, because more often than not, the more money people make, the more rude they become, the more condescending they talk to others. What you are to look for are people who are True Professionals in their lifestyles, in dealing with others with great respect, and in being truthful because their reputation and good name ,are the quintessential aspect of who they are. And I told you all this, because you don't want to finally meet someone from that Dating Site, and go out on a date, and that person just let anything fly out of their mouth, and they just let their destructive behaviors get the best of them. And now you are red face with shame. So look out for that, and inquire from the Match Making service about the kind of people they take on.


Dating Sites... What 3 Things To Look For In Those Match Making Services? Second Thing To Look For: Do They Check Members For Sex Offenders, And Other Criminal Behaviors.
And this one is very important to you, because the person you are going out on dates with, may have to bring you home, may be invited to a family barbecue, may accidentally meet your kids after a few dates. Or this person may even have a violent criminal past, and you don't want to put your life in danger because you were looking for Love and your Soul Mate. So you must always look for Dating Services or Match Making Services who spend a little bit of time and money, by running background checks on their members, because you would think that they too have their own reputation to maintain. And even if they charge you higher rate for their services, then you at least will have a starting point in dealing with that potential lover. And just because someone is successful, or have their own successful business, does not necessarily mean that he or she has a clean background. It just means that they have a good business mind, after all, the neighborhood drug dealer or rapist can be successful as well. So again, look for those services to offer you that, but do your own background Online through a service before a first date as well.


Third Key Thing To Look For From Dating Sites: Do They Have Strict Policies, And Do They Enforce Them.
Meaning, do they actually mean what they say in their websites or in their contracts, like Google does? And will they terminate an account if certain major policies are violated? And you want to know that up front, because you don't want a Stalker that you have met through that Match Making Service making your life miserable, and they are still taking his or her money monthly. Nor do you want someone to get your information to try and meet you for love, but then he or she ends up only pushing their services, their products or even their lifestyle upon you. Because by then you will have wasted your time, your efforts, your energy, your motivation in looking to have a good time while looking for love. Also, you don't want your business being put out in a Newspaper or Online, nor do you want to go on a date and that person was only doing research for their next book, but failed to disclose that, and now you are made famous involuntarily. So Watch Out For That.

Dating Sites... 3 Things To Look For In Those Match Making Services. Well there you have it Beloved, and now you have the foundation of what to look for before plunking down anywhere from $50.00 to $5000.00 per month for a Dating Site or Match Making Service. And really there are some great services Online and Offline,whose sole purpose is to truly help you find the exact love that matches your personality, your lifestyle and even your aspirations. Because You don't want to spend all that time and money, and then in the end the only things that happened for you, is you losing a great deal of money, is you losing your reputation, is you losing your motivation to look for the love that is perfect Just For You... Your Dating Site Adviser,  James Dazouloute


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Why Dating And Love Are So Important After 50.


Dating Over 50, And Still Find Your Love that You Will Connect With . And it is never too late dear friend to connect in love and find your companion, for you too can not suffer to be and live alone. So be forever mindful That you are a being radiating with love and you must find your opposite. Because Love is the one attribute that must always be aspired to, and not to forget that your emotions and sentiments will always demand that you keep on searching for love until the day that your purpose and mission here on earth is over with. And you have to learn and remember that, Life Is All About Love. And even though your body may get hold, your Heart is forever young and will always feel the gentle touch of Love, and so you must keep on pushing through and keep on loving one and all whom the Universe is constantly placing within your path.

And when it comes to Dating Over 50, one of the key mistakes that many make is that they erroneously think that they are Too Old For Love? What A Shame and what a misguided feeling to have, because you can never be too old for love, you can never stop loving. And just look it that way, when you are in your 50s, you love your daughter, you love your son and grandchildren, you love your friends, you still have love for your husband or wife who may have passed on, and you even love that cute dog who is playing with you. So What Is Love? Is Love not an emotion, a feeling, a sensation, a peaceful joy... So as you are loving all these beings, how are you misled into believing that Love is no longer for you. Especially when you have so far gained a great amount of wisdom, and you know that Romantic Love is the best kind of love that exists. For it is the kind of love that will make you feel alive, makes you feel wanted, make you feel energized to get out of your house and go exploring hand in hand...



So for Dating Over 50, do go on and Fall In Love all over again, and never be afraid to give of yourself unselfishly, you are made of love and of passion. And that will be with you until you pass on, and then your true Legacy will have been built, because that romantic lover will always remember you, and will talk about you even at the retirement home later on. So Please Beloved, at age 50 and Up, you are just now beginning to mature romantically. You are just now beginning to find yourself as a person, and now you can finally give yourself truly to the one you love. Because now you have mastered your emotions, you are now a ripe fruit who is succulent and ready to be truly enjoyed, you are now the wonderfully wise person that everyone wants to be around.... So Fall In Love Today... Your Love Finder,  James Dazouloute



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Thanksgiving... How Do You And Your Loved Ones Celebrate it.


Since this is really the time for Families and Friends to gather and give thanks for having each other, for living the good life, for enjoying all the blessings of God and His Universe, and for giving thanks for having joined Mother Earth and stake a claim of a small portion of a home on this Planet. And Thanksgiving is also a day to be thankful for your good health, to be thankful for the job that you have that makes a difference in the lives of others, also a time to appreciate all the wonderful animals that God placed in your life as your pets and even best friends at times. But Thanksgiving is also a Holiday to recapture old friendships, to forgive those who have offended you, to make stronger the bond of family, and to even welcome a new family member and friend who was born this year. And so Thanksgiving... How Do You And Your Loved Ones Celebrate it?

Thanksgiving is an important Tradition to have, if not the most important. Since it always reminds us to always give Thanks for all that we are, all that we have,  for our health, for our accomplishments, for our blessings from God, and even for the Lessons that we had to learn so we can be where we are right now. And Thanksgiving is one of the great attributes that even God looks for in us as His children and worshipers, because that is really the only thing we can give back to Him through our hearts for all He does every second. And then we also add to that the fact God gives to us even when we hate Him, His laws, and even His Discipline. So go ahead and give thanks today.


Thanksgiving... How Do You And Your Loved Ones Celebrate it? Yes, How do you enjoy this festive Holiday of Gratefulness? And even how do you cook the wonderful meal, how do you enjoy eating your favorite dish, and how do you savor the moment of Joy that each person who is around you is glowing with? Ah Yes, Life can be so grand, whenever we just stop. And appreciate all the wonderful little things that matter the most, like a meal with family and friends. Like a moment to create Souvenirs between loved ones. Like a moment of Elation between people who have found common ground in eating a Turkey, or a piece of bread, or a salad, or some gravy, or some wine, and anything else that fancies your taste bud, just as long as you get to spend Thanksgiving with family and friends, and even a Stranger or two. Share Your Thoughts On Thanksgiving. Your Thanksgiving Advocate, James Dazouloute



Why Do You Get So Depressed When Love Fails You.


Depression... Why Do You Get So Depressed When Love Fails You? And I ask You this Beloved, because Your heart is breaking right now and no one seems to truly understand just what you are going through inside your mind, inside your heart, inside your veins, and even inside every fiber of your being. All because Love was supposed to be yours for as long as you wanted her to be around, and your heart was supposed to be made happy by Love since she is only here to serve You. But the problem Beloved, is really not Love Herself, but Your Partner who was supposed to be living In Love with you. For Love has been with you ever since you were born and has never left your sides, because you used her to love your parents, your brothers and your entire family. Then later on, you used Love to have crushes on that beautiful little person when you were in the 6th. Grade. Afterward, in your teenage years, you again called upon Love to help you to give your heart away to that first boyfriend or girlfriend of yours. And then ever since that time, you have been using Love to give away all your emotions, all your feelings, all your sentiments to one and all, whom you have deemed worthy. So now, again I ask You: Depression... Why Do You Get So Depressed When Love Fails You?

Is it because when you were pimping Love, you created a fantasy world in your own head, but you never really took the time to share that world with your Lover. Or maybe you didn't care to communicate to your Love Teddy Bear, that you had a fantasy world where Perfect Love exists, and only You can go there 24/7. Or even worst, maybe you never did make sure that your Sweetheart was able to read the same page of Love that you were reading and understood, and he or she probably did not even know that you had a Book Of Love to even begin with. Because Great Leaders Do Not Hope They Are Understood, They Ensure That Their Message Is Transparent... And so now the evil Mr. Depression has gotten a hold of you, and is having his way with you, your heart, your mind, your tears, your appetite, your joy, your greatness, and even your money.


Another reason why You suffer from such major Depression is because: You Thought You Could Control Love.
Yes Love gave herself to you to do as you please, but She is a Two-Timer, because she also gave herself away to Your Sweetheart to do as He or She pleases. And so the same way you can change your mind about A Lover, the same way he or she could. The same way you can take Love away from that person, the same way he or she could. The same way you can make new friends and little-by-little begin to order Love to go toward them... Well the same way... Because What's Good For The Goose, Is Also Good For The Gander. And now that you have been caught off guard that your Sweetheart's Love is gone from you, now you are a wreck. Now you are emotional, now Depression is just abusing you in all sorts of demoralizing fashion. And really, Only You Can Be Blamed... 

Because You Did Not Mind Your Business.
Meaning, You did not treat Your Love Relationship like a true Business or a Great Job. For in either of those 2 positions, you would never just go to work one day a week, because you would either get fired or lose your business. You would never just leave your Boss hanging for 3 months without ever seeing you, or doing some kind of work, and then expect for your Job to still be there. Nor would you ever leave your Business in the hands of another person for 6 months, and never come in to check the books, because then you will be robbed blind.. -

--- But You Seem to think that it was Okay to not see Your Baby everyday, it was okay to have a long distance relationship where you were living on love inside your own head. Or it was okay to act like you don't care every time your Love Teddy Bear did anything nice to reach out to you. Or you thought that if you made love to him or her once a year, and that should be enough. Or you thought if You planted The Seeds Of Love in their heart, that your job was done and Love would grow at an alarming rate, without your rain, sunshine, pruning and cultivating... WOW! You Really Are Mental....


By Now I Do Hope that you are beginning to see why you suffer from Major Depression when Love has Failed You. And please don't tell me that it was Your Beautiful Sweetheart who was in the wrong for leaving you, because You Are Always In Control Of Life And Love, Meaning, if you work hard and focus all your attention and energy on the outcome you want in life, then The Universe will always bring you a way to be successful. And so I am advising You Beloved, to re-double your efforts In Love and With Love. Meaning, Learn that you always have to be mindful of your business of Love. And know that Your Lover always needs you like The Earth Needs The Sun for 12 hours each day and The Moon at nighttime. 

Yes Your Sweetheart needs your presence constantly, because I have never seen people cheat or lose interest when their Lover is constantly working at the relationship, always offering their presence - their love - their kisses - their sentiments - their passion - their gifts - and their all and all. All because Success In Love and with Love, requires more of your time and presence than does your job, your business, your hair, your car or anything else for that matter. So Stop It... Grab Love By The Hand And Tell Her: Let's Go Again... And Stop Depression Dead In His Track... Your Happiness Expert, James Dazouloute




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How To Be In A Love Relationship That Is Perfect For You


How To Be In A Perfect Relationship.... is what you have asked every person who you interact with, and all because you seem to be confused about romance. I mean, you ask yourself all the times: Why do people lie in relationships?. And why can't they just love one person and be done with it?. Believe me dear friend, I am with you. But the main reason for all the troubles of relationships is that people do not know how to effectively communicate. You know the old saying: “ Say what you mean and mean what you say?. “

And all this stem from the ability to speak properly what is deep inside the heart, the mind along with the soul. For it has been said, whatsoever is inside a sponge when you squeeze it, is what will come out. Nothing else. Deep the sponge in milk, then squeeze it and only milk will come out. 

And the first easy way to be in a perfect relationship, is to always test someone's heart. 
I mean, squeeze that person and see what will come out. Because remember, “ Out of the heart the mouth speaks, “ even when only joking. So you test your lover or potential lover, by asking questions in different forms, different ways, and at different times – sometimes serious and sometimes jokingly. Because the heart and the mind are sponges once again, and what is inside them is what will come out - Always. Case and point: Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a wife – beater, always a wife – beater. Once a filthy – mouth, always a filthy mouth. And how many times have you had someone at work who wanted to insult you deep from within their heart, and he or she used a joke to do it in front of everybody. That person used the “ Smart Politics “ to tell you what is in their heart. Because he or she knows that if you see through it and get mad for being insulted, then everyone around can see that this person was only kidding and make you out a monster. But if you take it well, then that person finally got to tell you exactly just how he or she feels using the power of words.



Second easy way to be in a perfect love relationship made just for you, is to “ Never Run From Yourself. “ 
And what I mean by that is, if 3 people you have been with who have never met each other, all tell you the same things as they are breaking up with you; then you have a problem in those categories. And you running away, to run into a new relationship is only taking you with you, and sooner or later whatever you were doing before will only be done again. So learn to “ Control Your Behaviors “. Notice I did not say “ Change.” Because people do not change, it's just an easy expression that people use, like: “ Oh I have changed. “ No my friend, what they are really trying to tell you is that, they have learned to control their behaviors and have set up safeguards to prevent them from acting that way. For even in the scriptures, God tell you to run from sins. Because He knows that once something is inside you ( Like a sponge ) then you will only keep acting it out over and over again. Hence this is why you do the things that you do over and over, and over again. So start today to set perimeters for the areas in your life that you have problems with. Kind of like an Alcoholic or a Drug Addict, they always do well when they set up parameters to protect themselves and control their behaviors. Like an alcoholic will not take the way home where there is a bar, or the drug addict will not drive by the neighborhoods where the dealers do business.  And that is how they are able to say they have changed, but again, only really learned to control their behavior. So do the same thing for yourself.



Third easy way to be in a perfect relationship, is to learn to communicate what is in your heart. And what I mean by that is, learn how to use the power of words to get what you want. Because believe it or not, people are dying to fall in love with you and stay in love with you each and every day. But you have to know how to draw that out of them, and you do that by always charming them. Come on now, you know very well what I am talking about; because remember the last time you wanted to get a job and how charming you were. Or the last time you wanted to get a big discount at a store, how charming you were. Or even the last time you needed a favor done, and how charming you were. And that is not because you are the smartest person alive, no friend, it is only because people have a built – in sensor from God that causes them to want to be praised, to be complimented. For even God is always looking for praise and worship, and He wants that by having your sincere heart speak praises and compliments to Him. Remember David in the Bible?, for God said: David is a man after God's own heart. So you have to start speaking romantically to the people you want to be in love with you, at all times. You have to use the power of words towards your destiny of happiness and great love. Remember the old saying: You can catch more Bees with Honey, then with vinegar. 

For Example, your lover is leaving you and you say: Well fine, Go on then, I do not need you. I do not need anything.  OR:   Sweetheart, how do I live without you, how am I supposed to explain this to my heart?. I have already written out our days of love, and I have carved our names in the tree of love to be together forever. And now that you want to leave me, my heart has not learned loneliness because you did not teach it to me. I can't function without your gentle guiding heart.   Now, which one of these 2 statements would make your lover say: I am sorry, I do not know what I was thinking.  And remember dear friend, that No One owes you anything. People like to be swept off their feet and they definitely like to be needed, I mean why do you think somebody will work 2 jobs while the other goes to school? Because the one working 2 jobs feel needed and appreciated, and so you must be romantic at all times. 



Let me show you how, as I help you with always speaking the right words as well always taking the right actions in your marriage, your relationship, your engagement, your dating and even your casual interacting. Remember once again, this is about the “ Meaning and pursuit Of Love... “ And to finally find the Adam Or Eve who was meant for you, and have perfect Love between just the two of you. Your Perfect Relationship Advocate, James Dazouloute

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Just For You, Dear 'Die – Hard Romantic', who is always looking for deep Love no matter how many times it has eluded you. And no matter how many times you have been betrayed, abandoned and even disrespected, you simply refuse to give up. I applaud you for your courage.

And you, as well as all other wonderful, misunderstood people like yourself, are exactly why I have written this this BookWhat My Heart Didn't Know About Romance “. Because like you, I was so sick and tired of reading all the great romance novels, and also hearing from other people about how they just have this great Love. I also got sick and tired of hearing about all the Lovers who so understand each other, and no matter what, always seem to end up back on the same page of Love. As well, it appears as though everyone has found their “ Soul Mate “, except you. But the problem with these fairly tales is that, they never seem to fully explain to you just how they got this seemingly perfect Love, nor have they ever given you a step – by – step plan on how to make a great relationship works.

Well not today, because today I am here now to share with you, inside each chapter, what to do in regard to just about any issues that you may encounter about having perfect Love that was made just for you and that great someone. And this book is partly a collection of my relationship writings that have been published, as well as completely new ones.

By the time you are done reading this great “ Book Of Love “, I guarantee, if you apply what I share with you, you will be able to twist, shape mold and subdue Love by any means that you see fit. All to the benefits of having at all times, the most intimate romance between you and your wonderful Lover. Because, “ Fellow Romantic At Heart, “ this is your time to be happy and joyful. This is now your time to have romance novels being written about your great relationship. This is your time to stop being misunderstood, and this is definitely your time for your Lover to finally be on the same page, as well as connect with you.

READ... LEARN... ENJOY... AND GET WHAT YOU DESERVE IN LOVE RIGHT NOW... 
What My Heart Didn't Know About Romance. A Book By James Dazouloute



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Table Of Contents:
Chapter 3. What Is Love And How Do You Capture It?.
Chapter 4. Meaning Of Love... Once You Have It
Chapter 5. What Is Interpersonal Communication, And How To Use It In All Your Relationships
Chapter 6. Love Relationship, Which Is Better Online Or Offline
Chapter 7. Love And Relationships, Easy Ways To Have Both
Chapter 8. What Is Lust... And How Does If Affect Love?.
Chapter 9. Online Date, 5 Ways To Be Safe
Chapter 10. Write Love Letters, And Drive Your Lover Wild
Chapter 11. I Love You Gifts, Different Ways To Be Romantic
Chapter 12. Give Love Away, And Become The Greatest Human The World Has Known
Chapter 13. Joy Of Being In Love, The Reasons Why This Experience Is So Fulfilling
Chapter 14. Inspirational Love, Why You Must Live By These 10 Inspirations Everyday To Keep Love
Chapter 15. Love Teddy bear, How To Love And Appreciate The Teddy bear In Your Life
Chapter 16. Thank You, How To Say Thank You My Love For All That You Give To Me
Chapter 17. Self Improvement Tips, And 10 Easy Ways To Succeed Being In Love...
Chapter 18. Greatness, How To Be A Great Lover By Using These 5 Steps In Your Love Life
Chapter 19. Zodiac Signs, All That You Need To Know About Your Spiritual Self When You Came To Earth To Love.
Chapter 20. Selling Love, How Do You Sell Yours In Your Love Relationship.
Chapter 21. I Don 't Know Why I Love You, But I Do Love You So Much
Chapter 22. Diana Ross, Said Touch Me In The Morning, But Who Will You Touch In Love?.
Chapter 23. Unconditional Love, Is There Such A Thing In Life And Reality.
Chapter 24. I love You So Much It Hurts, And Why Is That ?.
Chapter 25. No White Flag Above My Door, Not When It Comes To Loving All That Is Precious To Me.
Chapter 26. Unbreak My Heart, Here Is How To Unbreak It And Be Forever In Love.
Chapter 27. My Blessings, How To Get All Your Blessings In Love From God By Understanding Those 3 Things.
Chapter 28. We Fall Down And We Get Up, But Always Deep In Love.
Chapter 29. Where Do Broken Hearts Go, And Where Do they Get Healed?.
Chapter 30. Love, 7 Ways To Never Having Love In Your Life And Be Forever Alone.
Chapter 31. Make The World Go Away, But Why Love Is Still Here.
Chapter 32. Watch What You Say, And Your Love Life Will Always Be Great Forever.
Chapter 33. On Bended Knee... A Love Poem.
Chapter 34. You Are All I Have... A Love Poem.
Chapter 35. 7 Easy Ways To Enjoy The Simple Life And Have Great Love.
Chapter 36. This Is Unbelievable, Things We Take For Granted But This Man Lived And Died And Never Saw A Woman.
Chapter 37. Who Do You Remind Me Of... Is This Why I Am With You?.
Chapter 38. Plan A Wedding Time Line, 7 Easy Steps To Plan What To Do To Have The Best Wedding Ever.
Chapter 39. Inexpensive Wedding Invitations, Easy Ways To Do Them.
Chapter 40. Plan A Wedding, 5 Easy Ways To Save.
Chapter 41. Wedding Nightmares, 7 Easy Tips To Avoid Them.
Chapter 42. Shop For Your Lover... And Give Gifts Of Gratefulness.
Chapter 43. OOO La La... I Love You Poem:
Chapter 44. How To Be In A Perfect Love Relationship.
Chapter 45. Save Love... But First You Must Speak The Right Words.
Chapter 46. Help With Love.... To Keep From Losing Your Soul Mate In 3 Easy Ways
Chapter 47. 7 Ways To Have Perfect Love For You And Your Soul Mate.
Chapter 48. Self – improvement Plan To Be The Best Lover And Have The Best Health To Love With.
Chapter 49. Conflicts, 10 Easy Tips On How To Manage Conflicts In Your Love Life And All Other Areas.
Chapter 50. Thank You, How To Thank God For The Love And Spiritual Journey You're Experiencing.
Chapter 51. What Is Life, And What Are The 7 Most Important Things To Live Life By...
Chapter 52. You are my medicine... I Love You Poem.
 What My Heart Didn't Know About Romance. A Book By James Dazouloute

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