And when you say Control, I already know that you mean How To Lead Them In The Way That You Need Them To Go. Because many who are around you, who are dealing with you, who are helping you to grow as a person and a Leader, sometimes do you more harm than good. And really Beloved, it is not usually their fault, because they just do not know any better. And this is why A Real Leader will always make sure that he or she is understood, and never leave it to chance and hope that the other(s) understand. And when you think of A Leader and How To Be A Leader, it really encompasses all areas of life. Meaning, in your love relationship, you must be a leader. In dealing with your kids, you must be the leader. In making money, you absolutely must take the reins as a leader. In being friends with others, you have to be the great leader of that circle. In encountering unknown individuals, who could be friendly or malicious, you better be the leader, and take control of any situation they present to you. And so today, as your Counselor, allow me to share with You 5 best easy ways to affirm your leadership whenever you are dealing with others in any capacity.
First Way For How To Be A Leader: If the two of you are walking together, and you arrive at a door, then as the Leader, you let them in first to show that You have the power over them, and are the caretaker. And in the Military it is this way to this day, because the Commander always let the troops on board the boat or the plane first, and he is the last one to board. Because he has to make sure that all under his care are accounted for. And So Should You.
Second Way To Control Others: If the two of you are talking, you should place your hand on their shoulder every chance you get, especially when you are shaking hands, your other hand should go over one of their shoulder. Or if you are walking, always let them be a few inches in front of you, and place your hand on their upper back as if you are controlling them in the direction you want them to go in. And when a man takes a woman out on a date, you see him do that all the time, because it shows power, dominance, caretaker, provider and protector.
Third Way For How To Be A Leader: When you are shaking hands with anyone, you should always have your hand on top, by gently forcing their hands on the bottom. Or if they already have their hand on top, then add your other hand on the very top. Because again, you are The Leader, and you are showing your dominance and upper hand of the situation. And even as you are talking, always touch their shoulder each time you shake their hands to show your dominance, and you patting them like a pet. And if dealing with the opposite sex who is not your mate, just use your hand in open air and guide them to look where you want them to.
Fourth Way To Lead Others: When you are talking, always lower your voice at certain point, and force the people who are listening to lean in. Because that shows that you are Leading them, and guiding the way they are to react, forcing them to pay attention to you, and they are submitting to you because by leaning in, their body will be lower than yours, as if they are bowing to You.
Fifth Way For How To Be A Leader: When you want them to trust you while negotiating about anything, or if you just met them, then stand or walk around with both hands behind your back. Because that will send the subliminal message, that you have nothing to hide, and they can trust you. And that move also shows your entire body in the opened, and that you are proud of yourself and don't care if others judge you.
How To Be A Leader.... And Control Others In 5 Easy Ways? Well now you have the 5 easy ways to take control of others, and make them do what you want them to do gently, without them even being aware of it. And don't worry if you don't do all these things at first, just watch TV and see how The World Leaders react with one another. Because every single little thing they do, they have been coached to show power, dominance and Leadership. Especially when they are giving press conferences about a thorny issue, just watch closely their reactions, and then you will remember all that I have just taught you. But As For You, begin practicing all of these simple things starting today in every manner of relationship that you are involved in. And begin to take control as The True Leader who is already inside You, and as Your Life Coach, all I am doing is bringing him or her out... You Life Advocate, James Dazouloute