How To Find My Soul mate... And Not Be Married To The Wrong Person? And how do you make sure that you do not mistake the wrong person for your soul mate, because even though all things were perfectly clear when you two were Spirit Beings, but when you two arrived down here, and got separated for a short while because you each had to go and be born physically into different families, and grew up with different physical experiences, then things tend to get blurry. Destiny tend to be forgotten, as life wants to push you the two of you apart, as if not wanting love to bind you two once more.
And so what do you have to look out for? Because you already know that major decisions that you make today, you will not fully see the results of those, for at least 10 years. Kind of like when you decide not to go to college at 20, and it is not until your 30's and 40's that you feel the full consequences. And so it is with love, and I can guarantee that the person you are very sexually attracted to is not your soul mate. Because perfect love is slow, it is kind, it is very peaceful, it is not argumentative, it is passive, it is soft , it is gentle, it is boring, it is quiet, it is patient, it is shy, it is uneventful. And this is what you should be looking in your soul mate, but there is an instant connection that will be made where you feel that you have found a best friend, where you feel like this person talks with you as if he or she knew you all your life. And this person knows the reason why you do things much better than you do. That Is Your Soul Mate.