Like and Love, Lust And Obseession... Those lines can become quite blurry, as well as being very easy to cross if you are not careful, and if you have not already understood the clear definition of each one. Then again, You may have been one of those who have gotten your feelings hurt in the past. All because you already know that it is the worst feeling in the world, when you are with someone but not on the same page as him or her, and so as you are falling in love the other just sees you as a friend. Or you just want to be "Friends with benefits" and yet the other person is obsessing about you and is already making plans to get married. And really, neither person is wrong, it's just that each one has different needs at that particular time, based upon where they're at on their life journey.
But just to be sure about the differences between Like and Love, Lust and Obsession, Let Us Look At The Chart Below In Order To Get A Good Understanding:
So for Like or Love, Lust or full blown Obsession, the very best thing to always do is to sit down and talk about things, and begin to ask the other person just how he or she feels. Because you have to remember that you are dealing with another Human Being, and he or she has feelings just like you do, has needs just as you do, dreams just like you have dreamt, desires just like you had that itch... And so talk and get a feel for things, also study their actions and make sure what they say do match what they are doing for you and to you everyday.
Because you already know that there are some people (Especially Women) who can bite their tongue of emotions very well, and never share what is truly in their heart but only tell you that they are not interested, or that they don't need nobody right now. But deep down inside they are making plans to have you be The One For Life. So once again, know the differences between Like and Love, Lust and Obsession, then you can easily look for the signs when they start to present themselves. And then you will know whether to stay or run, whether to talk or cut off all contacts... If, you are not ready for the same thing of course! Your Romance Advocate, James Dazouloute
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