When it comes to giving, showing and making love, do you make it your duty to do these wonderful tasks as soon as you get home each day? Or do you get home and the arguments start, or the complaining continues, and even the fighting carries on? And since whatever you focus on will only expand, then would it not be best to quickly realize that one thing is for sure in life: People Will Always Let You Down, At Every Turn.
And then you can just accept your Lover for who he or she is, and begin to encourage their great qualities, while managing their faults. All because when you met that person, he or she was already like this for many years, and you will not change him or her, nor can he or she even change on their own, since people do not change - they only learn to control their behaviours. Just like an Addict can never change, but be in recovery for a lifetime by learning to control their behaviours.
And so give love, and so make love, and so give away the compliments, and so embrace the love of your life, and so offer to do the little things he or she loves. And by taking the lead you will see that your positive and affectionate actions become contagious. Also you must realize, that even a drug addict hates his or herself more than you could ever do, and that person knows he or she has a problem and wants to change behaviours, but unable to do so because the cliff is not yet near. On top of that, we all do what we are meant to do, we are drawn to all types of things by design, by karma, by chance, by each decision, by destiny, by life....
So once again, find something great about your lover soon as you get home, and focus on that. And you will quickly see that this person begins to apologize for not having together what you were expecting, and begin to control that weak behaviour... All because you are encouraging him or her, by giving away love, by making love, by sharing poetry of words, by caressing one another, and by giving support. And then all righteousness will begin to adjust and bad behaviours will begin to be placed under control... Just Give Love like your God do to you every day no matter what you are still struggling with.... Don't Be A Hypocrite. Your Love Advocate, James Dazouloute
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