How do you file for divorce? The love is gone, now what?. The adulterer finally shows his / her true face, what do you do?. The runner has packed up and left, where to begin?. The molester has betrayed your trust, how do you move from this?. These are all questions my dear reader that usually come up in a bad marriage and leave you feeling disoriented, angry, ashamed and hurt. Let me guide you on how to file for divorce move on with your life, and also restore your identity an individual in 7 easy steps to make it easy.
First step to file for divorce is to come to, and make that decision. Usually after a long struggle and a long review of at least 2 weeks, of what is good and bad, what consequences will this have for you and kids if any. And after wrapping all this around long bouts of prayer, now you have to decide, do you handle it yourself, or have a law firm it for you?. And to decide that you must realize, is the other person going to cooperate or is he / she going to fight you for every inch?. If they are going to cooperate then you have 7 easy steps take by yourself, and if they are going to fight then you also have 7 easy steps to take with your law firm / attorney.
Second step in filing for divorce, is to always separate by removing yourself, and your kids if any, out of that now very bad, volatile, stressful, and hurtful environment. Then you can think clearly and your emotions will not go up and down, give in or push away. People make filing for divorce because they are not sure what they want to do, one day work it out, and next day move on. And that will only drag it out in court, and or make your Attorney rich. So decide and amen.
Third step to make divorce easy is to realize your peace of mind and a positive atmosphere is what is most important to you, and your kids if you have any. It is not the materialistic things that you could have been lost in a big fire, or a tornado and you had no insurance, or the stock market could have crashed. So do not be like in the movie " war of the roses ". You will have to make a list of " would love to get " and " need to get ". In your divorce filing papers, you will always start with " The high, would love to get " and then
receive your " low, need to get ". And that is if they are going to fight you.
Fourth step is if filing yourself, go down to courthouse online and get a divorce packet. Fill it out, as it is self explanatory, and you have to get affidavits from your spouse if he / she is cooperating. Then pay the fee, it is usually less than $100.00, and get a receipt and a case number assigned to you. If they are going to fight you every inch, then call your law firm attorney your lists and make an appointment to begin. Your attorney start prepping all the details, and then file on your behalf. They will use information you gave them to get the divorce papers served, and after that you wait for first hearing.
Fifth step in filing for divorce is if you have kids, you have to attend a class on how this will impact the children, before any final judgment can be rendered by the judge. If kids or no kids then wait for court date to be assigned, either for first hearing or final hearing. In the meantime keep yourself separated from this nightmare of a situation. Remember peace of mind, and stress free. Avoid as little contact as possible because once you go to court you have nothing to discuss in private, and it is because you two could not resolve it and that is now why you have the public system handling it for you, with everyone in your business. So you have to begin to sever the connection. And please do not start dating or making all new friends as this will only complicate situations, and have accusations flying. Close one door and then open a new one, do not open both at the same time as you will create a drafty tunnel.
Sixth step is to cooperate with the court and or your attorney, remember you came to them. If preliminary hearing is set or court date, do not miss them. Bring with you your " would love to get " and " need to get " lists. You have a goal and once you started this path, you cannot relent, you cannot pause, you cannot waiver, you cannot slumber for you must pressed through in this valley to climb up to new beginnings. So do not sabotage yourself and your life. You will know or your attorney will know every way to get this resolved quickly if you do your part and stay the course.
Seventh step in filing for divorce the easy ways is to go in front of judge by yourself or with your attorney. By now you have already done and met all requirements, and today is final judgment day, victory day, freedom day and new beginning day. Exercise early that day and meditate on your life, and be calm and collected. Be ready with your paperwork, and with your kids if any, and be also ready to explain, tell and show information. And all will go well and your goal accomplished if you do your part right , and the judge will see it the right way every time. So Beloved, Divorce is an ugly world and something you hate to do, But You Must... Your Legal Advocate, James Dazouloute
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